Some of us deal with upsetting situations with anger. It doesn’t seem to matter who or what we are angry with. We are angry and that is the only thing that matters. Most of the time, we are angry at the situation that leaves us in a bind and for a time renders us helpless. The bad thing is, while anger is bursting inside us, we inevitably take it out on the people around us - our spouse, children, friends, people we work with - and end up hurting them.
Anger and being occasionally angry is not the crux of the matter, though. After all, to be angry once in a while is only human. The real problem arises when we let anger get out of hand and start directing it towards other people in an attempt to give vent to negative feelings. When this happens, what usually comes out as a consequence requires double efforts on our part and even more stress in our life. We have to deal with the anger brewing inside us and start trying to repair relationships with people we have hurt at the height of our anger, both of which is not constructive as they take the mind away from resolving the difficult situation that gave rise to the anger in the first place.
But, as we have said, to be angry is natural and an inherently human thing. We can never hope to live a life that is devoid of anger as that is utterly impossible. What is of utmost importance, therefore, is to finally look for a way that will help us put a lid on our anger and help us manage it more efficiently. There are a handful of ways to help us do just that. One of the most popular, uncomplicated, and effectual way is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).
As its name suggest, EFT affords us freedom from emotions that may inhibit us from living life fully and pleasantly. EFT works with a series of points in the body that correspond to acupuncture points. In fact, EFT is very much like acupuncture, but without the needles and the resulting pain. EFT necessitates you to perform a habitual tapping on acupuncture points on our body while delivering a series of positive and reassuring statements that deal exclusively with the situation that brought on your anger. The acupuncture points include the karate chop point, the bony ridge on the outside of the eyes and under the eyes, the inside of the eyebrows, under the nose, in the middle of the chin, on the collarbone, and under the armpits.
EFT is a simple process. It is painless, and there is no need for a cocktail of medication or an exhausting set of exercises. EFT is very easy to learn and memorize. It is convenient as you can perform it anytime and anywhere with little or no cost at all. If done routinely and regularly, EFT will provide you with results that will last for a very long time, most times, forever. Its side effects, if any at all, are mostly positive that you will hardly feel anything at all.
With the correct performance of the process of EFT, you will soon find yourself calmer, more laidback, and better equipped to deal with stressful situations and control or manage the angry emotions that may arise.
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